Today I am the same age to the day as my father was when he died. It's a sobering milestone and one which causes me great reflection. Whilst he was an alcoholic who hastened his end considerably through his illness and I am not, this strange mark upon the timeline of my life must by its very nature bring with it thoughts of mortality. Tomorrow, I will be older than he ever was. I'm not sure of the significance of this day.
Ok, I had my Memento mori eleven years ago when my brain went pop whilst dancing. But I was in my forties and this seemed like an unanticipated black swan event rather than part of the inexorable temporal process towards my natural end.
All of this is very depressing, I am sure. But I choose to eschew that view and instead examine a thought that springs naturally from a realisation of mortality: Where did all this stuff come from? And what should be done with it?
I don't own much. My car is elderly though still solidly functional. I have no jewels, no art, no baubles of any kind. My television is a cast off, probably state-of-the-art in 2008 and possibly the best I have ever owned or will ever own. I have a few tools which are good quality but worn out through many years of faithful service. Nobody wishing to rob my house would find much of value. I am, as far as lifestyle goes, not a materialist (though ironically, philosophically that is a close approximation to my view of existence).
But in the event of my death, what a mammoth task it would be to dispose of it all! The jars of assorted screws, bolts, small useful-looking squares of plywood and cedar planks. Boxes of springs, electrical wire of every gauge, old chair legs of exotic tropical hardwood. The list is endless. I may yet find a use for them, or perhaps they will languish, offering promise of a solution to an as-yet unencountered practical problem until my offspring tentatively enter my garage with a sigh and heads shaken in disbelief on some future day I will not see.
The inner debate rages: "You need to get rid of all this crap. You're never going to use it and one day, possibly soon, the kids are going to have to deal with this chaos!" and then "But only last week, I patched up my water butt with that piece of 9mm marine ply I have kept since I cut it off the bath panel in my first house thirty-mumble years ago!"
So, I think it's going to have go. I may have thirty years. Or I may suffer another bleed in my overly fragile cerebral blood vessels and drop dead at the counter in Tesco. But opportunities for utilising a 4mm x 50mm strip of larch will probably diminish as time and inclination trickles away.
So, can I interest anyone in 120 pieces of fine sapele, 50mm x 30mm by assorted lengths from 120mm to 150mm? Or perhaps I'll glue them into a block and make another table. No you won't Pete. You know you won't.
Perhaps, just these though. Yes, I'll keep them. Just in case. I blame you Dad. You young bastard.
2 comments:
In a weird way, I find it comforting to know that death makes no difference but comes to every living being sooner or later. As you know, I have first-hand experience with very sudden death, and I am glad that I didn't know beforehand that Steve was going to die. I am also glad that I don't know when I am going to die - I just know it is unavoidable, but until it happens, I am determined to live my life the best I can.
As for hoarding, I guess this is something we acquired as a species relatively early on in our evolution. Stoneage people really had a use for anything and everything, didn't they.
Thank you for your commitment to excellence in your writing. It truly shows!
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